KonMari Clothing

The KonMari (Marie Kondo) craze has come back into popularity at just the right time for me.  I started this method several years ago when The Life Changing Magic of Tidying came out, but I never finished it.  I continued folding my clothing in the KonMari style (unless I was too lazy and they sat in the laundry basket until I was ready to fold them).  Either way, my drawers have been nice and folded for years.

I decided to start completely over with the clothing category, which is the first category of belongings you are supposed to sort through.  Clothing is supposed to be easy to determine what sparks joy.  What I have learned is that I don’t really have many clothes that actually spark joy for me.  That being said, I’m also doing a shopping ban this year which means I will not be replacing my wardrobe unless I have to.  I was able to pick out things I like better than others and getting rid of things I hadn’t worn in years was relatively easy.

Here’s what I started with

It’s crazy to see everything there on a queen size bed.  How can I possibly have had that many clothes when I feel like I never have anything to wear?  Part of what you see are my work clothes.  Those definitely do not spark joy but I can’t get rid of them either.

I was able to get rid of 44% of what you see on the bed.  Those 173 items are all being donated to a local thrift shop.

Which means I kept 56%

I think I still kept too much, but I also still feel like I have nothing to wear.  One thing I noticed is that I have kept sweatshirts that used to bring me joy but now actually make me sad.  I have a collection of sports related shirts and sweatshirts that I got after a friend of mine was killed.  I wore them to remember him and at first that felt like a good thing.  Now it just feels sad.  Wearing a neon yellow and green shirt isn’t going to bring him back and I definitely don’t need those items to remember him.  I think when I am done with my shopping ban I want to buy some long flannel shirts to go over my t-shirts instead and get rid of a lot of my sweatshirts.

Another thing I’ve learned about myself is that I could wear grey, all shades of grey….maybe even 50 shades of grey, for the rest of my life.  Grey and bright colors are by far my favorite, everything else I would gladly get rid of.

I reorganized what I ended up keeping and got everything all folded and put away nice, once again.  There’s a lot of room in most of my drawers now…except for the sweatshirts drawer.  I’d love it if I wasn’t always freezing cold no matter what the temperature is.

I don’t think I’ve ever had less items hanging in my closet (the entire right side is work stuff).  Nor have I owned less shoes than this since before I was 16 and worked at a shoe store.  Fun fact, at one point I owned more than 100 pairs of shoes.

In a perfect world I would own a lot less clothing.  I have a feeling I will get rid of even more in the coming year.

Shopping Ban 2019

I finally took the plunge and made the official announcement on my social media pages, specifically Instagram and Facebook…and now here of course.  My belongings have really been weighing on me lately.  It seems like my four bedroom house with a two car garage isn’t big enough for the two people and three dogs living here and I can’t figure out why that is.  I have way too much stuff!

I’ve been thinking about reducing my spending, reducing belongings and clutter, and doing a shopping ban ever since I read Cait Flanders book The Year of Less.  I feel like this lifestyle fits into the fact that I really want to be able to start saving and investing a lot more money than I have been.  I really got a late start on planning for retirement and I feel so far behind.  I know I do not want to work for the rest of my life.

I feel like my thoughts on exactly what the shopping ban means for me are scattered and not as exact as they probably should be, but this is where I’m at right now.

This doesn’t mean I won’t still buy things. Food and other essentials are ok. Anything that breaks and is a necessity is ok.  Anything I find myself needing day after day that I can’t find a different solution for can be purchased.

Along with this I want to get rid of stuff too. My life feels overwhelmed with stuff at the moment.  I want to get rid of clothes.  I wish I could get rid of my work clothes because I don’t really like them, but I don’t like dressing up in anything so just changing the clothing wouldn’t make a difference.  I just don’t feel like me in anything other than jeans, t-shirts, and sweatshirts.  I’m a simple girl.  I think I’m going to try an experiment of putting away a lot of clothes I currently have in my wardrobe (closet and dressers) and if I don’t go for any of those other items in a year then I will get rid of them.  I gained 40 pounds in four years and in 2018 I’ve lost about 20 of those pounds so I have clothing in lots of different sizes.  This alone makes me nervous to get rid of too much right off the bat.  This is also why I have accumulated a lot of crap…because most of it doesn’t fit anymore.

I have been blessed to have been given a body and mind capable of working hard. It is so easy to change up your lifestyle with every pay raise, resulting in really no raise at all.  A raise should mean I have more money leftover at the end of the month, not less.

I’m going to keep splitting my leftover cash each month three ways: 1/3rd to savings, 1/3rd to investments, and 1/3rd towards the principal of my mortgage.  I’ve been doing this for at least a year now and I really like how it works out.  I keep thinking that one my savings account gets to a certain number (I’m not sure what that number should be) that I will again take a lump sum of $10,000 and invest it straight away in one shot.  I did this the first time I opened my Vanguard account and I really like seeing that huge jump in numbers.  It’s super scary, especially because the last time it was my first time every doing something like that.  But almost three years later I still have money (more than I put in) in the account so I must be doing something right.

As far as my crafting, that is still going to be huge in my life. I’m going to finish projects I know I have yarn for. I’m going to use up what I have before I buy more. If I’m out of sweater quantities of yarn and I’m ready to cast on I will purchase only what I need for the intended sweater/garment. I will not mindlessly buy patterns, I will wait until I’m ready to make that item. I’ve bought so many I thought I needed but now know I’ll probably never make.

I have already drafted up what the crafting world calls my Make Nine for 2019.  I have all the yarn I need to make all nine of these projects and they are going to be the main focus of my knitting in 2019.  As you can see, I should come out at the end of the year with a lot more sweaters I can wear!  I’m always cold so this is a big win for me.

The sweaters, in order from left to right and top to bottom are Pavement, Breathing Space, The Weekender, Parisian Dreams, Radiate, Antler Sweater, Exploration Station, Humulus, and The Doodler.

I want to hike and enjoy the outdoors more. I want to be present in my relationship more.

I know there are more goals I have currently, and I’m sure as I go through this process I will discover new ones too.

I’m excited, nervous, scared, confident, and calm.  I have no idea how one idea can make you feel all these things but I can assure you it can.

Two Months of Less (In Theory)

May was my second month of attempting to spend less money, based on the book I read called The Year of Less.  It was a difficult month in many ways.  One of those ways was my spending.  There were expenses that came up this month that I really had no control over and it was super frustrating to watch my bank balance go down, down, down as the month went on.

One huge expense I had, which wasn’t expected, was an entire set of new tires.  I got my first flat tire ever.  20+ years of driving without ever having a flat is good if you ask me but I couldn’t have gone a lifetime without having one and not ever complained.

I was extremely fortunate because where I finally realized I had a flat someone saw me and came out to help me immediately.  Such a nice person and I didn’t even know them.  It makes me remember there are still nice people in this world.  It’s easy to forget these days.

Another expense I had was buying plants/trees/potting soil and planter boxes for my house.  I’ve been wanting some fig trees for a few years now and I finally found some at Home Depot.  I LOVE figs so I’ll be really happy if these trees produce edible fruit.  We also got some squash, mint, lettuce, and other plants given to us so I wanted to be able to plant them.

Lastly, I had a huge ordeal which turned out to be a fairly large expense when I borrowed a pressure washer to clean off my house and it didn’t work.  I was so set on getting it done that I went and bought one myself. I didn’t buy the most expensive but I wanted to get one good enough to really get the job done and I think I did accomplish that.

As you read through my percentages keep in mind that last month was a real fluke because my tax refunds were factored in.  This month there was nothing extra and this will be close to my “normal” earnings for each month.

Ok, so here’s where I spent my money (in percentages):

• Mortgage 27.24%
• Car 14.24%
• Home 10.35%
• Investments 5.3%
• Extra House Payment 5.3%
• Savings 5.3%
• Food 4.02%
• Entertainment 3.57%
• Eating Out 2.85%
• Medication 2.61%
• Water/Sewer/Garbage 2.45%
• Fuel 2.02%
• Natural Gas 1.79%
• Beauty 1.71%
• Gifts 1.46%
• Dog/Vet 1.45%
• Gym 1.41%
• Internet Service 1.39%
• Car Insurance 1.35%
• Phone 1.12%
• Electricity 0.8%
• Yarn 0.74%
• Knitting 0.71%
• Clothes 0.4%
• Crafts 0.36%
• Work 0.1%

June is going to present it’s own challenges as I’m going to be going on vacation!  I can’t wait to go and I’m not going to try to spend a ton but I’m also going to ensure I do the things I really want to do and have a good time while I’m there.  After all, I do not get vacations very often.

One Month of Less – April 2018

As you know, if you’ve read my post/review of The Year of Less by Cait Flanders, that I read the book and thought it was an amazing idea.  So how did I do during my first month of attempting to buy less?  Lets take a look.

One thing that really skewed my numbers this month (not that you have anything to compare it to) was that I got my tax refund back which I did enter in my Spending Tracker app as income.  I promptly transferred both refunds into my savings account, at least for now.  I seriously thought on how to handle my refund and figured I had at least two smart options.  One option would be to leave it in my account until the end of the month and divide it into my normal three categories (savings, investments, and extra house payment) for my “leftover” money.  The second option, which I chose, was to just throw it all into savings for now.  So, my savings percentage is crazy high for April…not that I’m complaining.  It definitely helped to replenish what I spent on my upcoming vacation and more so that was nice.

Ok, so here’s where I spent my money (in percentages):

• Savings 53.36%
• Mortgage 14.46%
• Extra House Payment 7.55%
• Investments 7.55%
• Food 2.64%
• Eating Out 2.42%
• Crafts 1.84%
• Yarn 1.35%
• Water/Sewer/Garbage 1.31%
• Dog/Vet 1.25%
• Work 1.00%
• Internet Service 0.74%
• Car Insurance 0.71%
• Knitting 0.61%
• Natural Gas 0.59%
• Gym 0.59%
• Fuel 0.58%
• Phone 0.58%
• Electricity 0.43%
• Home 0.12%
• Contacts 0.10%
• Medication 0.09%
• Fitbit 0.07%
• Coffee 0.06%

I’m super happy about the fact that I saved and/or invested a total of 68.46% of my “income” for April but I know that this number is not achievable for me every month.  Too bad I don’t get tax returns every month.  That would be amazing.

Ok, so you’ve heard the good, lets take a look at some of the less than good.  As you can see, I spent just about as much money eating out as I did on buying food to prepare at home.  I have been much better about eating and cooking at home than eating out this past month but I think I can do better.  

Another thing that I tend to struggle with is the amount of money I spend on my crafty hobbies.  I will say that being crafty is what helps me stay sane and I enjoy it so it’s never going to go away, but I did spend more than I normally would have on supplies in April.  Part of that is due to the fact that I started a new hobby/craft in April and that was learning how to spin fiber into yarn.  So, I obviously needed some supplies which included a drop spindle and some fiber for spinning.  I did go a bit overboard with fiber and am realizing I’m having a hard time taking a step back from buying all the pretty things after letting myself get a bit out of hand.  I really need to stop and spin what I have and decide if it’s something I want to keep doing before I go and buy a bunch, and see if I’m any good at it.  There’s not much sense in keeping spinning if I’m making something I can’t use to knit/crochet with.  In the back of my mind I’m already thinking about the fact that I want to buy a spinning wheel but that is a decision for another day.  They run easily $1,000 and that doesn’t include all of the accessories I would need.  Sounds like my tax refund will come in handy if that’s what I decide to do in the future.

Another thing I have not done at all is to get rid of belongings.  Is it bad that I think if I just don’t buy more I’ll be ok?  I know deep down that this isn’t right but I just don’t feel up to the task of going through all of my crap…yet.  It will happen I’m sure.  One thing I need to go through, like last week, is the kitchen cupboard that has all of my cookware in it.  I open the doors and pots and pans literally jump out at me and it drives me crazy.  

So my goals for May are to still save as much as possible and to rein in my spending on crafting because I have a lot of supplies already.

Have you started your journey to less?  What steps did you take in April to change the way you spend money?

In case you missed it here is a link to my review of The Year of Less and also my post about the Spending Tracker I use.

The Year of Less

You guys….I’m back and I actually have a book to review!  It’s been so long since I’ve blogged or even read a book.  There have been a few but not many that have wanted me to change my life.

The book is actually called The Year of Less: How I Stopped Shopping, Gave Away My Belongings, and Discovered Life Is Worth More Than Anything You Can Buy in a Store and it’s written by Cait Flanders.

I don’t know if I have ever had a book make such an impact on me personally.  This isn’t the first time in my life that I’ve gotten rid of things I didn’t need or even attempted to spend less money, but it definitely is a different way of looking at this same topic.  When Marie Kondo came out with her book The Life Changing Magic of Tidying Up I read it and dove right in to changing things.  I got rid of a lot of clothes and other things in my home too.  The problem with this is that you are supposed to keep things that bring you “joy”.  What does that even mean?  I ended up keeping things I shouldn’t have and getting rid of, just a few, things I shouldn’t have.  All-in-all it was a good thing though.

For my life right now I, unfortunately, have to keep some things in my life that don’t bring me joy because they are necessary for work.  My work wardrobe isn’t joyful, but at this point in time it’s not supposed to be.  Things are oversized and baggy but that’s what I need them to be.  The Year of Less has a much more practical approach: have you used the item in the last six months to a year? Do you plan on using it soon?  If the answer is no then you probably don’t need it.

I also really like Cait’s approach to current “needs”.  If you feel you need something today think about if you also needed it yesterday.  If you need it today but didn’t need it yesterday wait for a month and see if you still need it, then think about buying it.

She also has a practical approach to “stockpiling” which is huge for me.  I’ve been much better in the past few years but I used to purchase lots of lotions or other body care products because they were on sale if you purchased several.  I still have lotion from god knows when that I haven’t even touched.  I guess I’ve had it in the back of my mind that if I didn’t have these things available and I NEEDED them then I wouldn’t be able to get them.  News Flash: everything is available all of the time.  In this day and age where Amazon Prime gets here in two days and I have a store less than five minutes away there is no such thing as an emergency I can’t fix at the touch of a button or a quick drive.  There is no reason to have a bunch of back-ups on hand.  From here forward I will be using what I have and replacing it only when and if I am about to run out and have no other alternatives.

Cait makes it a point to track all of her spending and has goals on the percentage she wants to save each month.  I already track all of my spending, which I’ve been doing for the past year using an app for my iPhone called Spending.  It’s an awesome app that shows you percentages and categorizes your spending into as many categories as you could possibly want.  It also allows you to make notes about each purchase if you want to.  I’ve been doing this for over a year and managed to pay my car off a couple years early by applying every penny I had leftover each month to my car payment.  Now I split my monthly leftovers into thirds and apply one third each to savings, my house payment, and investments.  That being said I know I could be doing better.

I’m ready for some simple, mindful living!